Tag: Self esteem

Why Nice Guys ALWAYS Finish Last.

By Brandon Jamil On the surface nice guys demonstrate great qualities. Nice guys can be adaptable, responsible, attentive, supporting, and caring. I mean… who doesn’t want this man? A man that worships the very ground we walk on. A man who understands our every need and is available at any moment. We finally found our

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Expectations & Why You Need Them!

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. Currently the social norm around expectations is that we simply don’t need them. In an interview on the OWN network in 2017, American author, life coach, and philanthropist Tony Robbins stated that expectations in relationships are the cause of so much unhappiness. This stance primarily

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The Gateway To Love.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. “When we love we let our hearts speak.” —Bell Hooks  After all of the heart break and carnage we can find ourselves closed off to loves whispers. The past suffering nearly destroyed us, and we made a vow to ourselves that love would never tear

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No One Is Coming To Save You.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. As we endure our life by facing our challenges, attempt to discover our life’s purpose, and explore the deeper meaning of life— we can question where love fits into the equation. The art of life comes with complexities, and it’s only natural to seek solitude

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The Unforgivable & Why it’s Okay Not To Forgive.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In today’s times, we’re told to be the better person. We’re advised that when someone commits a crime rather it be emotional or psychical– we should forgive them. The idea of forgiveness is reinforced by many spiritualist and spiritual faiths. We’re then told that forgiveness

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Karma… Who Are You?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. “The Intricacies of karma are very hard to understand. Therefore one should know properly what is karma (action), what is vikarma (forbidden action) and what is akarma (inaction).” –Bhagavad Gita 4.17 Karma is popularly known in the western society; as retribution for one’s actions. This

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Victim or Victor?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In life we all have sets of circumstances that can either cripple us or propel us into a newer and deeper level of understanding, growth, self love, self value. In our darkest moments of despair we can’t always see a way out, and sometimes we

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He’s in The Closet, But I Love Him.

Written By: Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. We’ve all heard stories about down low men; gay men who hide in the closet due to circumstance, geographical location, religion, and family ties. As we develop our sense of self and sexuality—we hear about the drama these down low men bring. From

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He Didn’t Call You When He Said He Would.

By: Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” -Maya Angelou We heard her right! When someone shows us exactly who they are it’s our responsibility to believe them. All of us have been in a situation where the man of

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