Category: Self esteem

I Love Him, But His Penis Is Small.

By Brandon Jamil It’s said that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. But what is the standard of true beauty? Today we’re captivated by muscles and nude bodies that run rampant on Instagram and throughout our social media sites. We’re in competition with the latest body trend, workout regimen, meal plan and of

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He Lied About His Sexual Health…

By Brandon Jamil It’s no secret that there’s a stigma pertaining std’s when discussing the gay community. Let’s face it, most openly gay men can recall the moment when we’ve visited the doctor for a sore throat—and the doctor believed it was gonorrhea of the throat. Or If we have a fever, doctors begin to

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Long Distance Dating Relationship? Fuck you!

By: Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. We’re told we’re beautiful or handsome, some men want to demonstrate their humor, and ask us personal questions in attempts to create some emotional closeness. Disgusted by the entire process, we slowly back out of online dating; we login less, give less power to

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He’s in The Closet, But I Love Him.

Written By: Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. We’ve all heard stories about down low men; gay men who hide in the closet due to circumstance, geographical location, religion, and family ties. As we develop our sense of self and sexuality—we hear about the drama these down low men bring. From

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The Power of Vulnerability

By Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. Rediscovering our worth to the path of vulnerability Author, researcher, story teller Brene’ Brown states in her book “The Power of Vulnerability” that we tend to associate vulnerability with emotions that aren’t pleasant. Often, we avoid emotions such as fear, shame and uncertainty; this

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