Category: Relationships

Why Nice Guys ALWAYS Finish Last.

By Brandon Jamil On the surface nice guys demonstrate great qualities. Nice guys can be adaptable, responsible, attentive, supporting, and caring. I mean… who doesn’t want this man? A man that worships the very ground we walk on. A man who understands our every need and is available at any moment. We finally found our Eat Pray Love nice guy–at first we...

Expectations & Why You Need Them!

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. Currently the social norm around expectations is that we simply don’t need them. In an interview on the OWN network in 2017, American author, life coach, and philanthropist Tony Robbins stated that expectations in relationships are the cause of so much unhappiness. This stance primarily speaks to our innate feelings...

Sexual Roles Define Our Relationships… Or Do They?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In gay culture we define our romantic relationships based on our sexual roles. These roles are top, bottom, versatile. The sub roles include vers top, vers bottom. As we explore our sexuality we choose roles that are succinct with our personalities and personal preferences. Each role is specifically tailored to...

Bye Bye Struggle Love.

By Brandon Jamil In the age of modern feminism, LGBT rights, women’s rights, and the ending of the male patriarchy––we’re finding ourselves disgusted at the thought of a struggle love relationship. We’ve seen it in the Hollywood movies, we’ve seen it with our parents, and grandparents. Now we’re reclaiming, redefining our romantic relationship models. In-fact there’s Youtube channels dedicated to...