Category: Relationships

April 10, 2020

Why Nice Guys ALWAYS Finish Last.

By Brandon Jamil On the surface nice guys demonstrate great qualities. Nice guys can be adaptable, responsible, attentive, supporting, and caring. I mean… who doesn’t want this man? A man that worships the very ground we walk on. A man who understands our every need and is available at any moment. We finally found our Eat Pray Love nice guy–at first we...

Categories Relationships/Self esteem

November 1, 2019

Finding The Man of Your Dreams & How To Not Be Afraid.

By Brandon Jamil In reality, we’re seeking refuge and safety for our emotions, because we’re terrified of no longer being in control. Those feelings and emotions we’ve kept barried beneath the surface, so desperately wanting to reveal themselves, but we feel somewhat vexed when we’re not reassured that our heart won’t deceive us. What if I told you that there’s...

Categories Dating/Love/Relationships

October 21, 2019

Expectations & Why You Need Them!

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. Currently the social norm around expectations is that we simply don’t need them. In an interview on the OWN network in 2017, American author, life coach, and philanthropist Tony Robbins stated that expectations in relationships are the cause of so much unhappiness. This stance primarily speaks to our innate feelings...

Categories Dating/Love/Mindfulness/Relationships/Self esteem

October 19, 2019

Catfished…Now What?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In the land of Instagram and instant gratification coupled with online stardom; we can easily  feel lost in the shuffle. For most of us, we find our lane on social media, and evolve it. Others remain distant from social media, because they can’t deal with the social pressures of feeling...

Categories Dating/Gay Dating/Relationships

October 18, 2019

How Do I Tell My Partner I was a Sex Worker?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. Sex work is not a foreign concept to any us in the world. Matter of fact, sex work is one of the oldest professions to date. However, sex work is deemed as one of the lowest professions, because it’s not considered honorable or moral. In most societies we socially punish...

Categories Gay/Gay Dating/Love/Relationships/Self esteem/Sex

October 16, 2019

Anal Sex Hurts, But It Doesn’t Have To.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. The allure of anal sex has been a taboo topic for decades, and yet anal sex is widely sought after. Men, women, heterosexual, and homosexual individuals and couples have indulged in the art of anal sex. This taboo and alleged sin has sparked an intrigue; dare I say conquest to...

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October 15, 2019

Sexual Roles Define Our Relationships… Or Do They?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In gay culture we define our romantic relationships based on our sexual roles. These roles are top, bottom, versatile. The sub roles include vers top, vers bottom. As we explore our sexuality we choose roles that are succinct with our personalities and personal preferences. Each role is specifically tailored to...

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October 14, 2019

The Gateway To Love.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. “When we love we let our hearts speak.” —Bell Hooks  After all of the heart break and carnage we can find ourselves closed off to loves whispers. The past suffering nearly destroyed us, and we made a vow to ourselves that love would never tear us down. We’d never fall...

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September 9, 2019

Bye Bye Struggle Love.

By Brandon Jamil In the age of modern feminism, LGBT rights, women’s rights, and the ending of the male patriarchy––we’re finding ourselves disgusted at the thought of a struggle love relationship. We’ve seen it in the Hollywood movies, we’ve seen it with our parents, and grandparents. Now we’re reclaiming, redefining our romantic relationship models. In-fact there’s Youtube channels dedicated to...

Categories Dating/Gay Dating/Inspiration/Relationships