Category: Gay Dating

Catfished…Now What?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In the land of Instagram and instant gratification coupled with online stardom; we can easily  feel lost in the shuffle. For most of us, we find our lane on social media, and evolve it. Others remain distant from social media, because they can’t deal with

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How Do I Tell My Partner I was a Sex Worker?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. Sex work is not a foreign concept to any us in the world. Matter of fact, sex work is one of the oldest professions to date. However, sex work is deemed as one of the lowest professions, because it’s not considered honorable or moral. In

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Sexual Roles Define Our Relationships… Or Do They?

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. In gay culture we define our romantic relationships based on our sexual roles. These roles are top, bottom, versatile. The sub roles include vers top, vers bottom. As we explore our sexuality we choose roles that are succinct with our personalities and personal preferences. Each

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The Gateway To Love.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. “When we love we let our hearts speak.” —Bell Hooks  After all of the heart break and carnage we can find ourselves closed off to loves whispers. The past suffering nearly destroyed us, and we made a vow to ourselves that love would never tear

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Why You’re Getting Bread Crumbed & How To Get Untangled From Those Strings.

By Brandon Jamil Spread the love by liking, sharing, subscribing. We’ve all had that one flake contact us, and the more we invest into the conversation or situation, the less we seem to get back. Sometimes, we ponder if our dating strategy is working, and why we’re not garnering the results we wish to have.

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Bye Bye Struggle Love.

By Brandon Jamil In the age of modern feminism, LGBT rights, women’s rights, and the ending of the male patriarchy––we’re finding ourselves disgusted at the thought of a struggle love relationship. We’ve seen it in the Hollywood movies, we’ve seen it with our parents, and grandparents. Now we’re reclaiming, redefining our romantic relationship models. In-fact

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Long Distance Dating Relationship? Fuck you!

By: Brandon Jamil Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. We’re told we’re beautiful or handsome, some men want to demonstrate their humor, and ask us personal questions in attempts to create some emotional closeness. Disgusted by the entire process, we slowly back out of online dating; we login less, give less power to

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Gay Men and Dating Apps

Don’t forget to comment, like, share and subscribe. Most single gay men spend their time searching for new landscapes to conquer. This can come in the form of a new residence; new city. Some of us are seeking to expand our careers and personal finances. While others are still in hopes to find Mr. Right. It’s not a secret

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